i am a cup of love. i am shannon.

November 19, 2012 | 114 Comments

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  • Kim

    You are such an incredible writer!!!!! Such HUGE insight. I love you, Shannon. Inspirational!!!!!

    • Shannon

      Thanks, Kimmie. I love you and how YOU inspire me. xo

  • Jocelyn

    You are a cup of love, without holes. Proud of you girlfriend!

    • Shannon

      No holes here! Thanks, Joce. You’re so great.

  • Fonda

    man I love you, and I love the work you are doing, and that you ARE doing it. still here cheerleading for you mama! xo

    • Shannon

      Thanks for all your support and encouragement. I’m thankful for the people in my life. xo

  • http://splatospheric.blogspot.com MizYank

    A very courageous post to complement a courageous decision. I love to read your writing for the smart insights and also the smartass insights. You rock, rowmie. Oh, and i fear you’re stuck with me. I got attached.

    • Shannon

      Smartass insights were my major. Major Smartass. I like being stuck with you.

  • Mariesy

    Shannon. I have no words. Only tears. I want to cover you with hugs and kisses!

    • Shannon

      Well then our next encounter shall prove interesting! Will the Girl Guide Holly Tea and Fair be able to handle our bounty of love?

      Can’t wait to see you!! xoxo

      • Mariesy

        Meh. I’m sure Girl Guides have witnessed girl on girl action before. In fact… isn’t that what camp is all about?

  • icescreammama

    you keep drinking from your cup of love. seems like it’s gone from half empty to half full. :)

    • Shannon

      Absolutely!

  • http://www.thedoseofreality.com thedoseofreality

    God, this is so damn amazing. I just sent it to my sister. Every single word of this I related to deep into my soul. Thank you.

    • Shannon

      Hey, wow—thanks!

  • http://www.iasoupmama.com IASoupMama

    Wow! Sounds like you did a lot of hard, hard work while you were there. I am so happy that you’re feeling good about it, too! Hard work sucks, but when you get it done, you get to live in the glow and that makes it worth it. Great job!

    • Shannon

      Oh man, the hard work just started. That was the womb. It’s scary out here! ;)

      Thanks.

  • http://amorninggrouch.wordpress.com A Morning Grouch

    Sounds like Hoffman was an amazing experience for you. That self-compassion piece is so important….and SO HARD to do sometimes. It takes constant, constant work. Good luck to you (and Steve!) on this journey.

    • Shannon

      Self-compassion is the biggest gift I came away with. I’m not sure I’d ever considered it before.

  • http://www.living-authentically.blogspot.com/ bill dameron

    This is healing, cathartic and beautiful. Congratulations on becoming that cup of love. It is difficult, but it can be done.

    • Shannon

      Thanks, Bill. I feel pretty great about it.

  • http://restraintunfettered.wordpress.com Emma

    This is truly inspiring. Speaking about your baby you said, her and I are going to be ok, we are ok. Wow, did that get to me. I want to believe that about my girl. Thank you for all the comments you left me. They mean the world to me. I admire the work you’ve done. Makes me want to do the same.

    • Shannon

      Believe it about your girl. Believe it until you can’t, Emma. You have to, otherwise you’re giving your energy to something that may never be. Hoffman was amazing work! They have it in the States, too! xo

  • Jennie

    Well done, you. I really think you can, indeed, learn to show up differently. Most of the time. And the times that you don’t, you can step back and ask yourself “What happened there? How did I show up?” And that can be a chance to do better next time.

    Good stuff.

    • Shannon

      How do I want to show up in this situation, has become my mantra. I love it.

  • Rebeca

    Dang. Nice work Shannon Fisher.

    • Shannon

      Thanks, RDK!

  • Nicole

    Love this. (and you!)

    That is all.

    • Shannon

      Love YOU. Thanks for all your support and encouragement, friend.

  • http://www.notappropriate4.blogspot.com Angela Ryan

    Such a beautiful and inspiring post! Continue being a wonderful cup of love.

    • Shannon

      Thanks, Angela. That’s the plan! :)

  • Gina

    I am in awe of your courageousness to share these wonderfully well written words with us. May your cup spillith over.

    • Shannon

      Thanks, Gina. My words don’t really feel that courageous. They feel like the truth.

  • http://www.lemondroppie.com Ginny Marie

    So many hurdles you’ve had to overcome! All that hard work sounds like it paid off!

    • Shannon

      Oh, I’m not over them yet! I’m pretty sure they’ve just lined up in front of me, actually. :)

  • http://disorderlywanderlustblog.blogspot.com Gem

    Very moving. You are a strong awesome woman! And this Hoffman thing sound Intiguing. I can never figure out if my childhood and relationship with my parents is/was wacky and damaging or if I’m just over sensitive. But now I’m tempted to go write lists, lol. I’d be interested in hearing more of your self journey.

    • Shannon

      NOT over-sensitive! (I don’t even believe there is such a thing; your sensitivity levels are just right!). Hoffman believes that EVERYTHING is tied back to our parents. We either take on their shit to get them to love us more, or we rebell to be less like them. I was reluctant to believe that at first, but after 8 days, I’m convinced. I’d love to tell you about any parts of my journey! Fire me an email. We could even chat on the phone, if you want. Sharing is fun!

  • Peach

    I know this was huge for you. Thank you for sharing your discoveries, your stumbles and most importantly, your growth from both of them. Sending you hugs, you badass. HARD. xox

    • Shannon

      Thanks, Peach. It was huge. Thanks for READING my discoveries. I seriously love that you’re here. It means the world to me. I sure like you! You’re pretty badass yerself. xo

  • http://www.michellelongo.blogspot.com Michelle Longo

    Wow. That is so powerful and real. Good for you. A cup of love. I love it.

    • Shannon

      A cup of love IS lovely. I’m adopting it for the evers.

  • http://inthetesseract.blogspot.ca Azara

    Dating yourself – what a great line and idea. I agree with what Gem said in the comments – sometimes I wonder if my issues with my parents are just me being overly sensitive. I’m very curious about this Hoffman course now – going to google it.

    • Shannon

      You and Gem and I should have a chat!

      And thanks!

  • deborah l quinn

    I don’t know what or where Hoffman is, but sounds like it produced a kind of plate tectonics in your life: shifting large psychic landmasses into new positions. Causes hellish earthquakes, too, but can produce amazing new vistas.
    And now I’ll lose the not-quite-working metaphor and say: you’ve got some serious life-lessons under your belt, and sounds like you & your relationships are going to be the better for them. Freud said once that any couple is also in bed with each set of parents, which makes for a pretty crowded bedroom. Kick the parents out of the bed, figure out how to write our own scripts… it’s all really good advice and yet hard as hell to actually, you know, DO.
    really great post, thank you.

    • Shannon

      I love this analogy! And yeah, they said that thing about Freud at Hoffman. It was sobering.

  • http://www.mamarific.com Mamarific

    This is so eye-opening. Now I feel like I’ve been to therapy, too! And believe me, I need it, so you’ve done a public service with this post! :)

    • Shannon

      Thanks, Mama! Glad you got something out of it. PSA. HA!

  • Lynne

    Wow. Where to start? I guess, firstly: Thank you for being awesome you, and for being courageous and writing this. Somehow I missed this post in my earlier perusals of this wonderful blog and reading it just now was a little mind blowing. As I’ve mentioned possibly once or twice lately: I do *not* get along with my family, and this year more than ever it’s been an unbelievable struggle to not have it completely tip me out of my boat. Reading that others struggle in the same way, and how it’s effected them is particularly powerful–so thank you thank you for being awesome, Shan. Secondly: Where/what is this Hoffman program you attended?

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